Gypsy Rose Blanchard’s Ex Ken Urker Shared Cryptic Message Weeks Before Death
A source close to Gypsy Rose Blanchard and her late ex Ken Urker has shared details about his final communications and mental health battles before his passing.

Ken Urker shared a cryptic message with a friend just weeks before his tragic death at his Louisiana home on his 34th birthday. A source close to Urker and his former partner, Gypsy Rose Blanchard, opened up about his mental health battles and final communications in the wake of the news. Authorities confirmed that Urker was found dead by deputies, who noted that a death investigation is underway with no evidence of foul play found thus far.
Cryptic Check-Ins and Mental Health Struggles
The source revealed that they spoke with Urker approximately two weeks before his passing while checking in on his well-being following his split from Blanchard. During the conversation, Urker reportedly thanked the friend for reaching out and stated that he loved them to bits. The insider admitted that they did not initially read too much into his messaging about surviving, believing at the time that he was doing okay.
However, sources indicated that Urker's mental health had deteriorated over the prior few months. Blanchard and Urker had officially ended their romantic relationship about a month prior, living separately while attempting to navigate co-parenting their 1-year-old daughter, Aurora. According to the insider, the breakup stemmed from Urker's frame of mind rather than hostility, with those close to him hoping he would seek therapy and improve.
Co-Parenting Texts and Final Interactions
In the weeks leading up to his death, text conversations between Blanchard and Urker remained strictly focused on their daughter. The source explained that Blanchard adopted a friendly, co-parenting tone and avoided romantic or flirtatious banter because she knew Urker was struggling mentally and needed space after they called off the relationship. They maintained contact every few days to coordinate care for Aurora, sharing updates and FaceTime calls while Urker handled weekend caretaking duties.
Following the discovery, a police report from the Lafourche Parish Public Information Officer detailed that deputies located drug paraphernalia, including syringes and a spoon with a brown powdery substance, alongside a handgun near the bed. Blanchard subsequently took to social media to share her grief, stating her belief that Urker had died of a suspected overdose while highlighting the positive qualities he brought to fatherhood.
Public Scrutiny and Ongoing Investigation
Blanchard also addressed the pressures Urker faced prior to his passing, claiming that he suffered from severe online harassment and public scrutiny across various social media platforms. In her public tribute, she described him as her soulmate and urged supporters to sign an online harassment petition in his memory. Lafourche Parish investigators are continuing their investigation into the exact cause of death, noting that deputies found no signs of foul play at the scene.
Authorities and those close to the family continue to navigate the aftermath of the tragedy as the official investigation proceeds. Anyone seeking support regarding mental health or related challenges can reach out to community resources such as SAMHSA’s National Helpline.
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